Meeting Women Online
***SUCCESS STORY:
Ive been a Wussy all my life, hooked up with a seemingly great gal,
married, etc. and she started being unhappy. She wanted to separate and
the more I tried to "give her what she wanted" the worse it got. So here
I was, starting all over again. got your e-book and I was insulted at
first about the things I read, but I tried not to judge it yet. I went
on to test your theories and found a lot of it really works and is true,
especially about not giving a woman what she wants (not directly or
immediately anyway). I went onto get your Advanced DVD series and I am
very impressed at how much more useful information is there, especially
the stuff about re-programming the way we think about our selves and
goals in situations.
I've started approaching more and more 10's (not that women should be
"rated") being myself and most importantly: as if I could care less
about talking to them, as if they owe me something already, poking fun
at something they say, do, have, or are (short, amazon tall, etc) and
bust their balls for it... but ALWAYS in a playful friendly way with a
big cocky smile. They eat it up and cant get enough, so I try to pull
back (thats where my problem is). Since im still a newbie I want to keep
going but I realize thats exactly when I need to hit the breaks and give
her the gift of missing me, and making her confused about what just
happened so shell be thinking about me till we meet again ;)
>>> COMMENTS:
Well, my hat is off to you. I don't actually wear a hat, but you get the
idea. You have done something that I have A LOT of respect for... You've
opened your mind to a new way of looking at something. You mentioned
that when you first read my book you initially felt “insulted”. But you
also say that you tried not to judge what you were reading, and instead
you went out and TESTED THE MATERIALS yourself to see if they actually
worked for you. Look, this is a big deal. The reason I have so much
admiration for you is because most men are too stuck in one way of
thinking to even TRY something new. Every once in awhile I get an email
from a guy who says “your techniques would NEVER work”... or “I'll bet
you're making up all of the emails in your newsletters”... etc. I have
to laugh to myself when I see this kind of thing. First of all, all you
have to do is walk out your door, and TRY some of the things you're
learning. Just TRY THEM.
Test them out (like you did). Take a week of your life and try new
things to see if they work. It so simple. But then again, I guess it
isn't. Well, congratulations again for actually putting yourself out
there, controlling your emotions, and putting it to the test. You're
going to see DRAMATIC improvements in the near future with women. Again,
you have my respect for doing something that most guys don't have the
guts to do.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave,
I've always been big into motivational materials. I've read every one of
Nap leon Hill's books at least 10 times each plus dozens of others from
several authors. I bought your DVD series obviously to increase my
success with women but the material applies to all areas of life. I've
watched it over and over and over again during the past 2 months and the
changes are amazing. A lot of potential I had locked up inside me seems
to have been unleashed. Going out and having success with women
definitely adds confidence to all areas of life but the self-image and
self-confidence exercises you go through have had a lot to do with it as
well.
For quite some time I'd been working on finishing up a sales training
book and audio program based on the huge success I've had in my selling
career using unconventional methods. Finally, about a month ago while
watching your program again something just snapped in my head and I sat
down, got the website up, got the marketing started, finished up the
product, and I'm already making more money from that than from my job
and already have booked my first speaking engagement. Seriously, your
program and the self-improvement messages and exercises had a lot to do
with it. (Interestingly, I've also had the concept of perceived "fame"
with women proven to me. My site has an "about the author" page with a
photo and several women have already emailed me with pictures
practically begging to meet me in person). The conversion rate from my
homemade site has been high enough to justify the expense of having a
custom professional site done which is in the works now.
Dave, thanks not only for more success with women but in my life in
general!
Things are definitely going to the next level for me and this bit of
business success has also changed my perspective and my "reality" with
women in a big way too, and when I go out it's obvious that they know it
without me having to say a word.
>>> COMMENTS:
Yes, as you can probably tell, I've read quite a few “self help” books
myself, and spent a lot of time reading “motivational materials”. I
found something VERY SIMILAR to what you found in my journey over the
last few years... Guys who go from unsuccessful to successful with women
also tend to find success in other areas of their lives as well. There's
something about being CONFIDENT in the fact that you can leave your
house anytime, any day, anywhere and meet women that kind of puts your
mind “at ease”. I can remember five years ago or so in my own life...
when I was single, I was insecure. That was that. If I didn't have a
girlfriend, I felt this STRONG insecurity and weakness. It was a kind of
“shadow” that covered all of the other areas of my life. Now things are
very different. By the way, let's face reality for a minute... most guys
are trying to be successful in life to attract women.
Why do guys try to earn a lot of money?
Why do guys strive for fame?
Why do guys compete with each other?
Of course, it's not ALL for women. But it is MOSTLY for women in the
long run. Back to what I was saying...Now that I can meet women anytime
I want, it has freed up a part of my mind that used to be devoted to
trying to figure out how to get a girlfriend... and worrying because I
didn't have one. And, of course, my own personal success has improved as
well. I think you're right on track here... thanks for the email.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
Finally a chance came to really test your book and I was overwhelmed by
the results. I had gotten your online book about 6 months ago and now
that I'm out of Student Teaching I have time to put it to work. I was
the DD for a trip to a really hot club in NC. I overcame my fear of
dancing and got out there. I was rejected by some girls but that didn't
matter: I ended up spending some good time with the most INCREDIBLE
looking woman I have ever seen. She is as if God had put her together
out of all my favorite things in a woman.
I played by the rules. Left her and danced with several others just when
things were looking great. Just before closing time I've got her by the
hand leading her to the bar. A couple of cocky/funny minutes and I have
her email and phone number. What a confidence booster!
Only thing is, she is Spanish and doesn't speak English very well. Thank
God I speak a little Spanish myself. I just emailed her back (she wanted
to know when I was moving to NC). But how to do C & F when English isn't
the main language?
Thanks,
Boosted but needing help still.
>>> COMMENTS:
lol... say what?
Now you know how to meet beautiful women, and you're emailing me to ask
how to be Cocky & Funny by email with a woman who speaks a different
language? lol... you're killing me. (lol=laugh out loud) Don't worry
about being Cocky & Funny. This girl obviously likes you... Cocky &
Funny is a PIECE of the formula. Not the entire thing. In this case,
open up your “Bridges” report that you get with Double Your Dating, and
READ IT. You need to get in FRONT of this girl again, and DO SOMETHING!
The hottest girl in the world is waiting for you, man. Don't
dilly-dally. Now get to it, and quit wasting time writing her love
letters!
***QUESTION***
David,
I am a 51 year old widower who had dated pretty attractive women in high
school and in college. But after being married twice and falling into
the "yes dear" routine, I had definitely become a "wussy" boy over the
past twenty years. I had been dating a few women recently, but not
getting to first base with the beautiful ones I really wanted to go out
with. I thought it was because I was older, had a few gray hairs in my
beard, and could stand to take about twenty pounds of the old "spare
tire". Not so....
I started receiving your e-newsletter about six weeks ago and decided
"what the hell have I got to lose?", let's try some of his suggestions,
I'm not getting what I want anyway.... Well, I am now dating five
different women between the ages of 35 and 47, three of them are
drop-dead gorgeous. One I have been going out with for a while knows
that I am seeing other women, but is OK with it as long as I still go
out with her. A 39 year old I met online a month ago just wants to meet
regularly for a "no strings attached" sexual relationship and we've
gotten together three times. I met her in person two days after I first
wrote to her using your "Funny & Cocky" approach. She's the least
attractive of the lot but one of the best lovers I've ever been with and
even has me talking her to climax over the phone when we can't be
together in person!
Dave, thanks for your help. I once again feel like the man I was in my
twenties!
Later, Dojoman
>>> COMMENTS:
Wow, I'll bet your friends hate your guts right about now.Then
again, doesn't sound to me like you've had any time to call them... so
what the hell. Isn't it interesting how different things can be when you
know how to communicate with women in a way that triggers their
ATTRACTION? Women love the play, the challenge, the mystery, and the
EMOTIONS that they feel when you use this stuff. Great job, and thanks
for the email. Oh, and I personally believe that any man who utters the
words "Yes, dear" as a serious response to a woman should be taken out
back, beaten until crying (which probably wouldn't take long), and
forced to wear an uncomfortable, tight-fitting dress to the chalkboard
at which time he should be made to write "I will stop acting like a Wuss
Bag" four million times.
Nothing personal, mind you...
***SUCCESS STORY***
My shy demeanor while standing back and hoping my looks will attract has
provided little success with the hot women I wanted to meet. I am 44
years old and have been doing this shy respectful what does she think of
me frame forever and real results where just not happening.
I bought your advanced series and was hooked. Reframing and not caring
about the outcome is so powerful! On the first night out after listening
to your series was fantastic. I went to a concert with a friend of mine
and I immediately interacted with a very attractive 25 year old at the
refreshment counter. At intermission we were back for more with her but
just not really getting in. At that moment I stopped 2 very hot women
walking by and proceeded with cocky and funny and a who cares about the
outcome frame and within two minutes one of them was asking for MY
number and actually initiated a kiss!!
Women are Competitive, I turned around and this attractive server was
wide eyed smiling and also proceeded to also ask for my number. I am
getting together with both of them after they initiated the first call
to me the very next day! I felt that power in almost every situation I
encountered that night and ended up with 8 phone numbers in total!
This was only my first step with so much more to come. Your series was
clearly the best investment I have made in this women and dating area!
IT WORKS!!!
Thanks David
N Z
Milwaukee, WI
>>> COMMENTS:
8 Phone numbers in one night out. For a “shy and respectful” 44 year old
guy. Not bad, I'd say. BUT THAT'S not the BEST part! The BEST part is
that you “GOT” an important lesson. You realized that women are VERY,
ULTRA, MIND-BOGGLINGLY COMPETITIVE. (Don't you love it when you say a
word, but you don't know if you made it up, but you don't care either
because it was perfect?)
Yes, women are VERY competitive with each other. And one of the
STRANGEST aspects of this competitive nature is that the MORE ATTRACTIVE
a woman is, the more COMPETITIVE she usually is with other women. I
can't figure this one out for the life of me, but hey... I don't ask why
electricity works. I just flip the light switch on. Married guys often
get more than their fair share of attention from women.
If you're out on a date with a super-hot woman, other women will look at
you (and her) more. If women see you talking to other women, they will
be more likely to talk to you. If you walk into a bar and talk to every
woman in the place, other women will see it and be more receptive to
you. Are these universals? No. But they do TEND to be true in most
cases. And the situation you mentioned... talking to one or more women,
then stopping to talk to DIFFERENT women, then turning BACK to the first
one or ones you were talking is is VERY POWERFUL. It “says all the right
things” without you even having to “say” anything. It's like strong eye
contact, or slow and deliberate movements. It's something that INSTANTLY
communicates everything that you need to say without words.
By the way, thanks for calling my program the best investment you've
ever made “in the women and dating area”. I put a lot of time and energy
to make it the best, and it's great to hear that it's working for you.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hi David,
I'm B and I'm eighty one years old. I've been on your mailing list for
some time and think that what you are doing is truly marvelous. Just
being on your list has changed my outlook on relationships and self
respect. Habits of deference to females is pretty ingrained in old guys
like me, but I'm trying to adjust to your inspiration. I've been
"dating" a couple of younger (60-70s) for bike rides and such and thank
you for new insight.
You are a national treasure.
B (old high school teacher)
>>>COMMENTS:
Now THAT'S what I call cool... You have to write me a story about one of
your “younger gals”... this is going to be VERY interesting.I love my
job.
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
I have your Advanced Dating Techniques DVD set and it was well worth the
money spent many times over. It has been amazing to see how many
mistakes I have made over the years with women due to a weak inner game
and understanding of women. Thank you for taking the time and energy to
put this series together. I am finally "getting it." I am now putting
your techniques into practice with a new confidence and will report back
soon I'm sure with success stories.
My question is when using online dating services such as match.com, what
is an effective way to describe yourself in your profile, what you're
looking for in a mate, and also what are effective methods for an
initial email to a woman of interest?
Regards,
whm
Irvine, California
>>>COMMENTS:
It sounds to me like you haven't listened to the ENTIRE program yet.
Later in the program you'll find that I have actually provided you with
examples of profiles that I've personally used to meet women online,
several examples of instant message conversations, and insights into the
psychology of meeting women using the internet.
I met my last girlfriend on the internet, actually. She's 5'10" tall,
and the hottest woman you've ever seen in your life. Not to mention
intelligent, funny, emotionally stable, and a joy to be around. And she
contacted ME first. ALSO, I interview one of my good friends who taught
ME how to meet women online... and he shares some of his secret
strategies as well.
A hint about most of these personals sites that most guys don't know:
If you update your profile, it brings your ad back “to the top of the
pile” and more women see it. So update your profile DAILY. Even a small
change will do. That one little tip will EXPONENTIALLY increase your
results...and for more tips like these, be sure to download a copy of my
eBook, “Double Your Dating”, and sign up for my free Dating Tips
Newsletter. I really want to see you get this part of your life handled
for good, and these are the tools you need to do it.
By David DeAngelo
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