The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes
You Probably Make With Women - And What To Do About It
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A "Nice
Guy"
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never
seem to be attracted “nice” guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that
always seemed to date “jerks”... but for some reason they were never
romantically interested in YOU. What's going on here? It's actually
very simple... Women don't base their choices of men on how “nice” a
guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT
LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a
woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being NICE doesn't make a
woman CHOOSE you. I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical
sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT. Until you accept
this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with
women that you want.
MISTAKE #2:
Trying To "Convince Her To Like You" What do most guys do
when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not
interested? Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel
differently. Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW
A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never, ever, EVER. You
cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with “logic
and reasoning”. Think about it. If a woman doesn't “feel it” for
you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being
“reasonable” with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn't
interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her
mind. Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3:
Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission In our desire to
please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us
guys are always doing things to get a woman's “approval” or
“permission”. Another HORRIBLE idea. Women are NEVER attracted to
the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER. Don't get me wrong
here. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. But
if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her
approval and permission for things”, think again. You will never
succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men
who seek their approval. Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if
Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4:
Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With Food And Gifts. How many
times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts
and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her
even HALF as well as you did? If you're like me, then you've had it
happen a LOT. Well guess what? It's only NATURAL when this
happens... That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
“I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to
buy your attention and affection”.
Your good intentions usually come across to women as
over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation.
That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5:
Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In The Relationship With Her.
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with
women is sharing how they “feel” too early on. Attractive women are
rare. And they get a LOT of attention from men. Most men don't
realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way
or another ALL THE TIME. An attractive woman is often approached
several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into
dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month. And
guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men. That's
right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect. And one thing
that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster
than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I
really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates. This signals to the
woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too
fast... and can't control themselves. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not
"Getting" How Attraction Works For Women. Women are VERY
different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION. You need to accept
this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful, young,
sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction. But does the
same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men based
mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying
this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women
usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER
than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average
and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in
men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than
they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language
and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind
of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a
hot, sexy young woman. But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN
how to do this. And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7:
Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks. One of the most
common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even
gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only
interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a
certain height... or guys who are a certain age. And sure, there are
some women who are only interested in these things.But MOST women
are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or
his looks. There are personality traits that attract women like a
magnet... And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU
can be one of these guys. YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman
just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome. Let me say this
again: If you know how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual
attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young
woman.
MISTAKE #8:
Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women. Earlier I mentioned
that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY
THEIR POWER to women. Said differently, guys try to get women to
like them by doing whatever the woman wants. Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over...
Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not
Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women.
Now I'm going to blow your mind... A woman ALWAYS knows what
you're thinking. Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men
at reading body language. That's ten TIMES. I know, it might be hard
to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman,
and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don't know
exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit
there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!And this
goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing
her, getting physical... everything. If you don't know what to do in
each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE
EVERYTHING. And you KNOW it. It is VITALLY important that you know
EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the
first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not
Getting HELP. This is the biggest mistake of all. This is the
mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success
with women that they truly want. I know, guys don't like to make
themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself. Let me tell you a little about me and
how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't
know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was
attracted to. It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to
ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still
remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do
whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and
dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy
things, I finally figured it all out. I can now approach just about
any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models,
I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as
well. It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that
sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and
I might wind up alone. I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out
and meet attractive women. Oh, And One More Thing... In this day and
age of “instant gratification”, I realize that this might just sound
like another late-night info-mercial promising to make you rich by
next week.
Well, that's not the case. I've spent a lot of time, effort, and
energy writing this eBook. I wanted to design and create a program
that ANY guy could easily understand and start using IMMEDIATELY to
meet and date more women... without having to lie, do dishonest
things, or be “manipulative”.
I now believe that ANY man can be more successful with women and
dating, and I get emails every day with success stories from guys
who are using this program to meet and date wonderful women. I know,
I know... an e book that can teach a regular guy how to be more
successful in the dating world? No way. Well believe me, this
program will DRAMATICALLY increase your success with women... I
absolutely guarantee it 100%.