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Women are so much more
subtle about flirting clues that men need to
really pay attention. Ladies, men are not
used to women flirting with them. An
overwhelming majority of men said they would
just love it if a woman would talk to them
first or at least express a larger clue that
you were interested in checking them out.
#1: Repeated contact...at least three
separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to
be given. Why? The first time he's going to
look around and make sure it's really him
that you are flirting with. The second, he
knows it's him and he gets flushed and
pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk
by you and at least smile..he's checking you
out a little more.) The third time you can
express interest-by introducing yourself, or
commenting on his tie, or waving from across
the room. Now he knows you are open to
meeting and it will be a cinch.
#2: Whisper...it always gets their
attention. Ask them if you can tell them a
secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just
love your tie...can I buy it from you when
you are done with it?'
#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't
want you to reject them in front of an
audience. If you do go out with a
friend...separate every so often or take a
breather from talking...men do not want to
risk your disapproval by interrupting you.
(You have already missed out on a lot of
quality polite men who didn't want to
interrupt.)
#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are
not interested in approaches you and flirts
...be nice.... All the other men are
watching to see what you do. If you laugh
after he leaves or show visual disapproval,
you are cutting your chances on anyone else
approaching you. Try shaking his hand and
saying something like: 'It was so nice of
you to approach me...what's your name? Tom?
Tom, I know how hard it is to meet
people...I might have a girlfriend who would
be interested in you.'
#5: If he acts like a JERK! Be polite but
firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version
of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to
go practice on someone else. Firmly say that
'lines' with sexual overtones are not only
not attractive to you but to most other
women in the world.
#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a
group of men and have someone watch to see
who's checking you out.
#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little
leg....wear higher heels...the redder the
lipstick the more available and noticeable
you will be. Arch your back a little as you
sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear
earrings that are interesting enough to make
someone comment on them.
#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at
him. This asymmetrical position is always a
signal you are interested.
#9: Give him a look all over from head to
toe - nod with approval and then flash him
your most winning smile.
#10: Remember that flirting is a way of
connecting from the heart and acknowledging
someone. Be generous! Have Fun!
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